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10 Golden Rules for staying happy
with the One You Love
1.
First and foremost, love each other. Realize how lucky you are to be
in love with someone who loves you. Say, “I love you” often and in
different ways. Surprise each other with gifts of praise to show your
love. Remember that love grows in an atmosphere of freedom and trust,
not from restraint and obligation. Do things to keep your love and
romance new and alive. Don’t take love for granted, ever. It’s such a
blessing.
2. Listen objectively to each other, as you would to a
friend. Acceptance is a key to understanding and a buffer for tension
and resentment. Don’t take things personally; give each other the right
to have different opinions, the right to disagree. You don’t want
anyone to control your feelings, so don’t try to own someone else’s, not
even the feelings of the one you love.
3. Never stop treating each other like sweethearts.
Talk to each other as sweethearts. Do things that sweethearts do. Work
together in achieving your goals. Do things just to make the other one
feel loved, especially when he or she might be feeling a little down.
Take pride in the way you look and act, for yourself and for your
partner, but never let external values have more importance than the
internal feelings of your heart.
4. Take care of each other. Go to the doctor with each
other. Put the other one first, but don’t neglect your own needs
either. Do the things that show that you’re interested in your partner’s
needs and desires and problems.
5. Look to each other for help. Don’t let your problems
or concerns get out of hand and make you go in opposite directions. Be
joyful that you’ve each made a commitment to the other…through sickness
or health, poverty or wealth, or whatever comes along. You’re in this
life together. Be thankful.
6. Talk about things together the way you would talk
with a friend. Absolutely refuse to say anything negative about your
partner. Share your most important secrets, and never betray the
secrets of your partner; treat them as almost sacred. Keep your own
identity, but walk together as one. Don’t ever give up on your love.
7. Settle the fact that you’ve made your choice and
you’re no longer looking for anyone else. Don’t flirt. Think of the
consequences. Don’t even consider it.
8. Be in agreement about how your money is spent. Big
items should have the approval of both. Talk about how to manage your
finances.
9. When in doubt about your actions, ask yourself how
you would want to be treated and then act accordingly. If you’ve
argued, never go to sleep without asking the other’s forgiveness, even
when you don’t feel like it or want to. Be faithful about this; you
won’t be sorry. Do what will make you both the happiest in the long run
and be the best for your relationship.
10. Have fun!
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